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 on: August 02, 2013, 04:53:01 am 
Started by rksingh - Last post by nyjazz
RK,


I visited your respective blogs and websites of poetry, they are really good.
You can take a look of our website, it deals in Jazz, may be you guys like it.

Music School NY

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 on: August 23, 2012, 04:20:27 am 
Started by Don J. Lester - Last post by Gooner
There is a poet named Lioyd wright .  He has wonderful memories of the farm which he grew up on during the Great Depression. He joined the  national  poet committee   and  an association relating to that, developed valuable thoughts and wrote poems which won made him a famous one.

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 on: March 28, 2012, 04:10:34 am 
Started by rksingh - Last post by stephen77
thats an amazing piece of information. hope you continue with the good work.

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 on: March 11, 2012, 01:54:14 am 
Started by Joseph Scott Morris - Last post by adienergy21
Yeah , thats so beautiful :3

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 on: March 02, 2012, 09:34:16 pm 
Started by Don J. Lester - Last post by missouri10
Nice poem , i really love it.

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 on: February 22, 2012, 03:27:28 am 
Started by lewis - Last post by charlie77
How To Get Your Ex Back
breakups are reversible

90% of the breakups are reversible. Is yours?

Are you hurting from a breakup?

Does everyone you talk to tells you that itís over, to let it go and move on?

But what if it didnít have to be over?

What if you want to fight for this relationship and win your ex back?

My name is Kevin, and I am writing this 3 Step plan to help you get your ex back, even if you think your situation is hopeless.

NOTE: ITíS VERY IMPORTANT YOU READ ALL THE 3 STEPS. I HAVE SOMETHING SPECIAL FOR YOU IN THE END

Breakup is a terrible experience. It leaves you in pain, feeling depressed, angry and often very confused. It is common to be needy at this time. But if you want to get your ex back, you will have to be calm, unresentful, and HAVE A PLAN. 90% of breakups are reversible and if you do the right things at the right time, then you will have your ex back in your arms.

I am here to help you devise that plan. Donít worry, itís not some mind tricks that you will have to play on your ex. Playing mind tricks is not the way to go if you want to have a long term healthy relationship with your ex. This plan is based on human psychology and how to use its principles to get your ex back. I encourage you to read everything in this 3 STEP PLAN and then take action. I can only tell you what to do, but until you actually do it, you wonít see any results.

In the first part of this 3 STEP PLAN, I am going to tell you what are the biggest mistakes that people make after theyíve broken up. These extremely common mistakes end up hurting your chances of getting back together with your ex. This is perhaps the most important part of this series so make sure you read each and every point and follow it.

#1 Begging, Pleading, Being Too Needy
begging and pleading won't get your ex back

Being Needy is Unattractive

After a breakup people make the biggest mistake of begging their ex to take them back. I know it seems like the right thing to do right after a breakup BUT ITíS NOT. In fact, it is the worst thing you can do at this moment.

Nobody wants to be with a needy person. Pleading and being needy is unattractive and is only going to push your ex further away from you. It will only make them think that they made the right decision by breaking up with you.

#2 The Doormat Syndrome

Being a doormat won't get your ex back

The Doormat Syndrome in relationships is going out of your way, sacrificing your own happiness to please your partner. It means accepting everything that your partner wants you to do without having any demands of your own just to get back with them.

If you find yourself saying things like, ďPlease stay, I will do anything for youĒ then you may be suffering from the doormat syndrome.

You donít want that. Nobody wants that and for two very solid reasons Ė

a) Itís unattractive. Nobody is attracted to someone who doesnít have their own opinion, needs, or their hobbies. So being a doormat will most likely be futile if you want to win your ex back.

b) Even if you do get your ex back like this, you will have an unhappy and smothering relationship which probably wonít last very long. And I am sure thatís not what you want.

#3 Text Terrorism and Drunk Dialing
drunk dialing will hurt your chances of getting your ex back

Alcohol and phone DO NOT go together

This is again a very common mistake and yet detrimental to your chances of getting back together with your ex. People go out to have a few drinks trying to have a good time and the next thing they know they are calling their ex and making a fool out of themselves. Avoid this at all cost.

You have to make yourself scarce if you want to get your ex back (explained in STEP 2 of this plan). Texting them all the time and calling them just shows that you are too needy and donít have anything else to do. As I said before, being needy is unattractive and you want to avoid this at all cost.

#4 Smothering Them With Affection
I love you is not something your ex wants to hear right now

Saying "I love you" will NOT help your case

The logical approach to get your ex back seems that you should tell them how much you care for them and how much you love them as soon as possible before itís too late. But trust me itís not a good idea.

Well, chances are your ex knows that you love them and they know how much you care for them. In fact, if they were in a relationship with you, then they care for you too. But they decided to breakup anyways, didnít they?

ďI love youĒ and ďI really really care for youĒ isnít what your ex needs to hear right now. Smothering them with affection may even push them further away.

 

#5 Giving Them All The Power

At this point, even if it was your ex who broke up with you, you donít want to give them all the power. You donít want to be the one who is always available for them. You donít want to be their contingency plan.

Acting like your life is over without your ex will only lose their respect for you. In the history of breakups, no one has ever taken their ex back out of pity. So, doing such a thing is only going to hurt your chances.
nobody takes their ex back out of pity

No one takes their ex back out of pity. Not even this kid's ex.

#6 Freaking Out When Your Ex Starts Seeing Someone Else

After a breakup, you feel depressed, angry confused, shattered, and are really hurting. At this moment, if your ex starts seeing someone else, it just tears you apart. You feel even more depressed and confused. And usually, when your ex is in this rebound relationship, they seem to become too intimate too fast, which makes it even worse for you, for example it took them 5 months to get physical with you and they are already sleeping with this new person who they are going with for only a week.

In this situation, DONíT FREAK OUT. Rebound relationships happen after a break up, itís very very normal. But the good news is that they donít last. And the reason why they became so intimate with this new person so fast is because itís hard for a person to go from being so intimate with someone to being completely single. That is why most people (especially girls) will become intimate very soon with their rebound relationship because they are trying to get to that level of intimacy that they had with you. But usually, the faster the rebound relationship progresses, the faster it ends. They will soon realize that the new person isnít right for them and they were just being intimate to quench their thirst for intimacy. And once they do realize it, they will break up with them.
rebound relationships are like ice creams

Rebound Relationships are like Ice Creams. They aren't healthy and they don't last long.

So if your ex is seeing someone else, all you have to do is just be cool about it. Thatís all. Sometimes, they start seeing someone else just to rub in your face that they are moving on. And you should not react to their relationship by telling them they are doing a mistake and they shouldnít be seeing this new person. This is because if you tell someone to donít do something, then you can rest assured that is exactly what they will do. In fact, if you do so they will go to the extent of prolonging their rebound relationship just to prove you wrong.

Instead if you do something opposite, and act indifferent to their new relationship and just concentrate on your own life (career, hobbies etc.), it will get them thinking. And their rebound relationship will end soon like all other rebound relationships.

Now the above mistakes look innocent but are fatal for your chances to get back together with your ex. So make sure you donít do them. I know most of the advice I gave above is counter-intuitive, BUT IT WORKS.

At this point, you may be thinking what if Iíve already made these mistakes?

Donít worry if youíve already made these mistakes. Like I said, they are very common and chances are that most of you reading this would have already made some of these mistakes. Itís still not too late. You still have a good chance of getting your ex back. I just ask you to not make any of these mistakes anymore. If need be; print this page out and keep it with you all the time so you donít do any of these mistake again.

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 on: February 08, 2012, 11:51:18 pm 
Started by rksingh - Last post by peter77
Born, broughtup and educated in Varanasi, he is a university professor, teaching English language skills to students of earth and mineral sciences. he has authored over 150 articles,165 book reviews and 34 books, including Twelve collections of poems, among them, two jointly with U S Bahri, TWO POETS (1994) and COVER TO COVER (2002), and two others, EVERY STONE DROP PEBBLE (1999) jointly with Catherine Mire and Patricia Prime, and PACEM IN TERRIS (2003, a trilogy collection, containing my haiku collection PEDDLING DREAM). MY SILENCE AND OTHER SELECTED POEMS:1974-1994 (1996), ABOVE THE EARTH'S GREEN (1997), and THE RIVER RETURNS (2006) are my other three important poetry books. NEW INDIAN ENGLISH POETRY: AN ALTERNATIVE VOICE: R.K.SINGH (ed: I.K.Sharma) is the latest publication on his poetry. It contains 22 critical articles, six interviews and over a dozen review/comments by about 30 scholars.(Details from bookenclave@yahoo.com). he has received several awards and honours, including honorary Litt.D. from the World Academy of Arts and Culture, Taiwan, 1984, Michael Madhusudan Award, Calcutta, 1994 and Peace Museum Award from Ritsumeikan University, Kyoto, 1999

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 on: February 07, 2012, 08:36:11 pm 
Started by lewis - Last post by arrizclark
what a nice poem Smiley

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 on: November 19, 2011, 11:26:46 pm 
Started by b3nlucky - Last post by b3nlucky
describe someone you love...

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 on: October 11, 2011, 08:29:46 pm 
Started by Joseph Scott Morris - Last post by uri75ipp
 Smiley

good day to all

nice meeting you guys!!!!
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